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Hey, stop talking to your friends about how bad your relationship is with your mate. Not only does it look bad but it reflects badly on you. After all, your mate is a reflection of you. Plus, just about all couples go through stuff at one time or another and if you really care about your mate and want to work thigs out, you can’t be telling everyone your business.

After all, you are both grown folks with two different ideas trying to come to a conclusion about something. The best person to talk to about your problem is your mate. Unlike your friend, they can actually do something to improve. For instance, let’s say that you are upset because your mate doesn’t help with the kids. Instead of complaining to your best friend, whose hubby also doesn’t help with the house, you should find creative ways to get your hubby to help out. Then, you’ll get your clean house. If you talk to your friend then all you may feel vindicated but you’ll still end up with no help. 

So unless you want your situation to stay the same, don’t air your dirty laundry. Instead clean it up fromt he inside out by discussing the issue with your mate and not your buddies.

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